Becoming the Real You

Children are to be encouraged to use their imaginations.  That is one of the ways that they discover who they are.

Unfortunately, somewhere along the line, others start telling them that they can’t “do that.”  You can’t be unique and fun and wholly you.

Society is doing that to our children.  Making them all look the same!  We were not meant to be exactly alike.

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There is corruptness all around us.  We walk around with sores all over our bodies from wounds in life.  For many, we are not even allowed to express ourselves without fear that cameras will start rolling and others telling us we can’t think like that.

But I am here to tell you that you can be yourself.  You can be unique and fun and wholly you.

For me, it has always been important that I stand for goodness.  That I encourage others to be all that they can be.  We help one another.  We care about one another.

Integrity is important to me.  That others can see the soundness of moral character in me.  To know that I am honesty.  Forthright.  Incorruptable.  Fair.

My integrity has cost me jobs because I refused to do what was not right.  My integrity has cost me friendships.

The older I get, I realize someone has to stand up and speak out these truths.  I am saying we don’t have to be “cookie-cutter” people.

I see in a younger generation that many want to serve others.  They just don’t know how to go about it.  Some of our leaders pretend that they care, so this younger generation flocks to them thinking they will find what they are looking for.

I am thinking this morning, that maybe some of those who have been newly elected as leaders in our county will discover that.  They want to do what is right.  They want to serve and help others.

My encouragement to them – “Wake-up!”  Don’t let the corrupt take away your dream.  Don’t let them take away your integrity!  Stand strong!  Just don’t get pulled down into the hatred and the corruption that surrounds you.

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I Believe in You

Oh the messes that our colleges and  universities are making of our young adults.  They are dragging them down and telling them that they are not capable of handling “life!”

Basically saying, they are losers.

But I am saying that is not truth!  I am tired of watching a handful of people striving to destroy our youth and not allow them to become great and mighty in their destinies.

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I have seen moms and dads raising up their children to be strong.

I am also seeing these same kiddos being targeted for failure.

I am speaking from a grandma’s heart.

I have attached an article for you to consider today.  It doesn’t require bashing one another, but what it does require is that we stop and think!

The Blame Game

To all my grandchildren and to all the ones that I have adopted along the way:

You are so much more than this mess that surrounds you!  I believe in you!

You have grown up in difficult times.  No doubt!  But I also know that you are above the mess that surrounds you.

Take steps this year to hear other voices around you.  Voices that are encouraging you to be all that you can be.  No matter how insignificant it may feel.  Start in your own family.  Your own community.  And then surround yourself with cheerleaders willing to walk along side of you.

Believe this today:  There is a grandma out there who believes in me.  Now go find others.